2008 sti. I flashed the wrong year map (2011), I know !!

the Ecu stopped the download halfway "exiting" the map. I reflash my map XPT stage1 to be sure.
after reflashing, I went out for a ride, just to check, on a fast road close to my place and the car started to "cut power" at high rpm like if it was "red line", I immediately slow down 40 30 to 5 mpg, "the cut" happen few times more again and the car just shut down.... lock light (differential) and Sport mode light are flashing and the car is not starting.
I try to read or write with ECUflash but I am getting " SSM2 init/interface close/interface close"...
Is this could be a relay fault?
Any help will be welcome.
Thank you